Dear
Special Friend,
hank
you for choosing adoption for the child you are
now carrying. We are Dena and Craig and both of
us were adopted as babies by our respective parents
into loving, stable, and supportive families. Our
relationships with our families couldn't be closer.
fter trying to start our family for a number
of years and having been unsuccessful at conceiving
a biological child, we are turning to adoption
- it seems such a natural choice for us. Having
lived our entire lives as adopted people, both
of us fully understand the unique feelings an adoptive
child experiences. As a couple, we are eager to
share those experiences with a child and to provide
a loving, nurturing, stable and fun home to him
or to her.
he two of us met about two decades ago on a
summer's night at a mutual friend's house party
near the beach. It was love-at-first-sight. An
inner voice spoke to Dena and told her she'd marry
Craig before she even knew his name! On our first
date, we discovered that we were both adopted as
babies, which further solidified our budding union.
ife has become abundant, as we now own two homes
in California. Our main home is in a beautiful
coastal city close to many attractions, such as
world famous amusement parks, beaches, and cultural
centers. Located in a family-oriented neighborhood,
there is a children's park directly across the
street. Our country home is a three hour drive
up the coast in a peaceful, rural community on
several acres of land, studded with California
oak trees and golden rolling hills. Both homes
are traditionally styled and warmly decorated,
complete with white picket fences in the yards!
They have beautiful grass lawns to play on and
almost 100 trees between them. Swing sets, jungle
gyms, and many children's toys will be a welcome
addition to our yards.
wo cats, Chestnut and Sweet Pea, and two dogs,
Angel and Mortimer, share our home with us. The
cats enjoy sunbathing, while the dogs love to play
in the yard. All are fully trained and gentle with
children. Both of us are passionate about animals
and Dena regularly volunteers her time at the local
animal shelters, with animal rescue groups and
causes. Having horses to add to their animal menagerie
is a future goal.
hildren are also Dena's passion. She worked
as a first grade school teacher for many years
and before that she was a nanny to several families.
Warm, animated, enthusiastic, outgoing, patient,
caring, and compassionate describes her personality.
In addition to decorating and gardening, she enjoys
baking and cross-stitching. While she was an outstanding
teacher and adored by her students, she left teaching
when we got married to focus her energies on our
home life and trying to start a family. We both
believe that it is important for a child's development
to have at least one family member be a "stay-
at- home" parent and Dena is committed to
being that parent.
raig will make a terrific father. He is a patient,
kind, generous, and honest man. Naturally ambitious
in life, he is a wonderful provider to his family
with a strong work ethic. Craig runs a food packaging
company whose products can be found in almost all
supermarkets across the country (which is right
up his alley as Craig has always been enthusiastic
about food and is a gourmet cook! He even recreates
restaurant dishes at home, which he and Dena enjoy
eating together!) Another of Craig's passions is
restoring classic cars and motorcycles.
e've traveled across the U.S. and Hawaii, as well as overseas to such exotic
destinations as Bali, Tahiti, Mexico, Israel, Germany, Scotland, Croatia, and
China. The very best trips we've taken have been on our friend's private yacht;
complete with a full-time crew who treated us like royalty. It was beyond our
wildest dreams! There are many more lands we'd like to explore. e offer a large, close-knit extended family
to a child. Dena's parents, younger sister (only
by 7 months), grandparents, and cousins are within
five miles of our home. Dena grew up near her grandparents,
great-grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins.
Our family is looking forward to becoming grandparents
and great-grandparents again and making memories
with a new addition to our family tree.
raig's family is close with us, too. They live
in a neighboring state and we visit them regularly.
He is the second of four siblings, two adopted
and two biological brothers and sisters. They all
have children of their own, so there are many cousins.
We both had very happy childhoods, thanks to our
adoptive families. Long marriages run in both families,
with both sets of parents being married over 40
years and grandparents married over 60 years!
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family values, close-knit family relationships,
financial stability, being active, healthy, and
having a love and respect for life describe us.
Adoption has made a profound difference in the
quality of our lives and know it will continue
to do so. If you are interested in talking more
and/or possibly meeting us, please feel free to
reach us toll-free anytime by calling 1(866)
6ADOPTED or send us an email at: Dena-Craig@sbcglobal.net.
You can also contact Dave Baum at 1(800)
795-2367 or adoptlaw@ix.netcom.com.
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